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https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/01\/15\/well\/live\/understanding-grief.html<\/p>\n
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Ms. Devine maintains that most grief support offered by professionals and others takes the wrong approach by encouraging mourners to move through the pain. While family and friends naturally want you to feel better, \u201cpain that is not allowed to be spoken or expressed turns in on itself, and creates more problems,\u201d she wrote. \u201cUnacknowledged and unheard pain doesn\u2019t go away. The way to survive grief is by allowing pain to exist, not in trying to cover it up or rush through it.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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